Even the smallest squabbles get blown out of proportion when you are in conflict with your spouse.

I like to call these little issues, distractions!

Yes! Because all they do is distract you from tackling the main issues that exist between you and your spouse and gives you an excuse to not handle them.

In this week’s video, i answer a burning question a concerned wife has about her husband’s neglect to do something she thinks he should already be doing. (expectations! expectations! expectations!)

My counsel at the end of the day was to focus back on the real issues you are facing with your spouse. Do you trust them? Do you think they trust you? Are you faithful to them? Do you understand what it means to love them?…and more.

Focus on the real issues beloved, and leave all the idiosyncrasies alone. They are not the real issue. When you get to the heart of the matter, your hearts will be intune again.

All the best!

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About ZeeZee

ZeeZee is a certified Relationship and Marriage Coach who believes her purpose in life is to equip couples with the right tools for a successful relationship. Through her website and YouTube channel she shares practical tips and principles that help couples understand the inner workings of a healthy marriage.